Elder Care Provider

My Mum, Eeva is living with what is assumed to be vascular dementia for the last 5 years. She is pleasant, gentle and kind by nature, and remains so to this day. She loves to dance, listen to music, go for walks, read, and look at photo albums. She is 87 and lives with my father George who is 94 and who now has an MCI but is still independent with some weekly support from myself. He has physio exercises and needs some instructional support to do them, he has not been keeping up with them. I provide meals which they reheat, my father does some cooking. They go for daily walks together. Recently she has started wearing Depends at night with bed protection pads on her bed, as she has been urine incontinent at times at night- waking up and not understanding that she needs to replace a wet Tena pad with another.
They need regular help with making sure my mother's bed is dry and in order- the pads seem to be working but they are not always disposed of properly and a morning chec...